Saturday, August 4, 2007

Returning home

Thanks to everyone for your comments. It means a lot to us to know there are great family and friends at home supporting us.

We have decided to return home early. There are many legal issues with separating this boy. The sister has a family who wants to adopt her (she has many physical and psychological problems) but this family has not yet filled out the "official" documents. If they do this, then we have been told that the boy will be separated and we will be able to adopt him. However, this resolution may take weeks and there is no guarantee that the family will complete this paperwork.

We have decided to come home and wait to see what will happen. If things are resolved and we receive permission to adopt the boy, we will fly back for the court date. If we do not receive permission to adopt the boy, we will need to reevaluate the situation.

5 comments:

Curlicue a.k.a. Kathy, KD, Kate and my favorite, Miss Kat said...

I'm so sorry to hear that you have run into difficulty with of all things....paperwork! Your bond with that boy comes through in your writing and I hope that an opening comes so you all can be together. You're in my thoughts and have a safe trip home. Hugs...Kathy V.

Michael Sean Anderson said...

You guys are doing what needs to be done in order to make life better for a child and yourselves. You are the kind of family that will give the world better people by raising children (all too rare). Hang tough and one way or another things will get resolved.

Very best,
Mike and Teri

Aunt Jeannie said...

I wish things had gone more smoothly for you guys. I know how much you care about this little boy. He's lucky to have you guys in his corner. Sounds like he's become attached as well.

We all love you very much! Let me/us know what you need and keep the blog going even after you return. It provides great energy. Safe travels!!!

Unknown said...

I am so sorry that it has worked out this way. It must have been a very challenging and taxing journey. I sincerely hope that it works out that this young boy can make his way into your very big hearts. You sound as if you bonded with him deeply. Much love to you both and wishes for a safe journey. Love, Sandy

Anne said...

We are here for you whatever you need. You are in our thoughts and prayers - all (3) members of your family!
Safe travels,
Anne